Lilith's position tells us about unfulfilled wishes, the suppressed shadow-side of our personality, painful experiences, privation and darkness. As with Pluto, the processes triggered here should lead to self-recognition and the acceptance of our dark side. Good and bad should not be differentiated from each other, but human existence should be seen as many-faceted.
In 1918 astrologers spoke of a second moon near the earth called the dark moon (>Black moon Lilith is really a point in the moon's orbit, not a body in the sky). Understanding and finding Lilith's position in your natal chart is very important. It can help you become aware of your "dark side" and bring self defeating patterns and unhealthy behavior to light. This is what I call your "sensitive point."
In a woman's horoscope, Lilith represents which part of life the woman plays a strong role in. Lilith is very evident and dominant in charts of powerful, creative women; Those who are quite successful yet vulnerable and sensitive. Many have unconventional relationships. In a man's horoscope, Lilith can reveal what type of woman he fears most and which type of woman can drive him to despair.
When Lilith is located in the 1st house of a natal chart, she is strongly connected to one’s physical self, both the body and the mind. In case that she is conjuncting the Ascendant, the native will be oozing of dark sexuality, becoming an object of desire for other people. Lilith in the first house can give a very hot body, and especially in a woman’s chart can make her so attractive that other people can become obsessed with her figure. Also, Lilith placed here may indicate very bad relations with the female’s father. He can be of a violent nature, and the chart owner will frequently reproduce patterns of violent explosions in her own life.
In addition, the presence of Black Moon Lilith in the first house can give a tendency to wear black and morbid clothes, and generally have a rather dark and alternative style. The traits are quite common as having Pluto in the house, yet Lilith brings a less serious approach to clothing – the individual desires to look extraordinary and differ from the rest of the community. Also, taboo themes such as death and sex will be used as art and style to provoke the masses. A first house Lilith person will easily wear sculls, crosses, pentacles and everything else that will make him pass as dark in the other people’s minds.
Moreover, Lilith in the first house can also give a rather provocative character. The person who has this placement can have tendencies of acting “bitchy”, indulge in mind games and manipulations and even receive pleasure from confrontations with other people. Having enemies may be a source of personal power, and they do not seem to be discouraged when not being liked by others. In fact, this helps them create an even more strong and eccentric persona, frequently making their appearance and behavior be gossiped by the society. They take pride when other people notice them and discuss them, even if it is in a negative way.
As the 1st house is associated with the native’s body and how he treats it, Lilith will spawn her magic in the native’s everyday reality through quite a lot of means. Sex and drugs can frequently appear in the native’s life, especially if Lilith makes aspects with important planets. Good aspects can even show a very responsible use of these power sources, turning the native into a very spiritual being – even if he follows darker roads towards higher consciousness.
An adversely aspected Lilith can make the native have quite a lot of personal demons, and suffer from existential questions and dilemmas. Lilith in bad aspect to Mars, Pluto or other malefics can bring tendencies of self-abuse, love of pain and all types of perversions involving symbolical suffering. When in a water sign or negatively aspected to Neptune, a first House Lilith can give substance addiction.
On the other hand, taming Lilith’s dark powers can grant the native a fruitful life full of sexuality, while also a mind that can connect to deeper realms and understand the functions of hypnotism. In any case, the native can seduce others easily even if he does not understand the mechanism behind such phenomena.
In case you have this natal placement, understanding how to better channel the obscure energies of Lilith will help you very much avoid any negative effects. Be careful to hold back feelings of revenge, as it can backfire at you. Also, hold yourself away from self-destruction, even if it may appear as a vice that you enjoy. Know that you are easily noticed by others, your energy cannot just pass unnoticed; thus, there is no real need of over-exaggerating in your appearance and behavior. And finally, try to keep away from trouble! In case your life indeed has quite a lot, you will understand that most of the times it was your choice to get into trouble. Yes, this produces adrenalin; but if you consciously do it then do not be grumpy about it.
When Lilith is located in the second house of a natal chart, she desires material possessions. She can be very thirsty of obtaining wealth, while also objects that stick in her mind. Especially when adversely aspected by Mars, Pluto or even benefics such as Venus and Jupiter, Lilith can become overly greedy. She likes to exceed the limits, and her unquenchable traits may make the native become a wealth-vampire. The native’s approach towards money might be of a secret nature; or even hidden deep in his subconscious. For the outer world, the individual might be seeming to renounce money; yet in the inside he is quite a lot burning for it.
Yet, this by no means implies that his urge to achieve material possessions will be successful. His second house has a lot more important indicators about his financial growth. If no prosperity is shown by the planets and ruler of the house, Lilith might remain thirsty, complicating furthermore the individual’s approach towards things he owns.
Money can become a real obsession, while also can anything else the native believes should be under his control. This includes also people, ideas, virtually everything he feels he has a grip on. Lilith can obscure and obstruct his mind, not allowing him think out thoroughly and find the correct ways of obtaining the desired objects.
In case you have this placement, keep in mind that the tricky traits of Lilith can mislead into desiring things that are actually unnecessary, just for the sake of experiencing their obtainment. You should definitely halt and consider whether your pursuits lead towards happiness or are just a game of your mind, a vicious hunt of a delusion that actually does not grant you real pleasure.
As the 2nd house is ruling money, Lilith placed there not only creates a hassle with gaining them but also likes to spend recklessly. The native with such a placement can be quite unable to handle his money, and overspending can become an addiction. Also, another issue that he might experience concerning finances is being used and tricked by other people. Furthermore, the individual can even become overly stingy if Lilith is adversely connected with Saturn.
Lilith is connected with the fear of rejection, and her presence in the 2nd house indicates that the individual is afraid that the society does not approve his handling of possessions and wealth. This subconscious fear, though, leads him towards even more provocative actions. Indeed, the society might not even notice his patterns of obtaining and spending money, but his fear urges him to express himself in an unhealthy way. In the end, especially if Lilith is adversely aspected, he gets both noticed and criticized, which fact he later uses in order to reassure himself for the righteousness of his fears.
Individuals with Lilith in the 2nd house should guard against materialism, and one of the best ways to make her dark traits milder is to learn to share your resources. The native must disconnect the terms security and money, and learn to not feel inferior when he has less than others. In addition, as Lilith is also connected with sexuality, such a native should search for emotional traumas connected with possessions and belongings. The patterns of Lilith might be all outcomes of an erotic rejection in his early sexual life, somehow linked to his social class or wealth. If you have experienced such a rejection, un-root it and you will see Lilith functioning in a totally different way.
Because indeed, she can be a magnificent teacher and offer you all types of hedonisms – as long as you take the thorn out of her heart. And in the 2nd house, a healed Lilith will offer you exactly what the house implies. And that you secretly (or even openly) desire.
Having Lilith in the 3rd house is considered a good placement, as most astrologers claim she feels exalted in the sign Gemini. Thus, in the 3rd house she is domicile, and mostly manifests as an unquenchable thirst for communication and information. Of course, as it is Lilith we are speaking about, the means of receiving that information might be highly dubious. A third house Lilith person will not hesitate to overhear a conversation, gossip, or use other obscure means of gaining knowledge about things that interest him. If your natal Lilith has difficult aspects with Mars or Mercury, be very careful of what rumors you spread. Also, if your natal Lilith squares a planet in the 12th house, your tongue will definitely create some hidden enemies; generally try to think a lot before revealing sensitive information of others.
As the 3rd house rules ones siblings, this natal placement can indicate a person that is using his siblings to empower his own purposes. Lilith may indicate lies towards them, and when she is ill-aspected these can even have a lot of effects on the relationships with brothers and sisters. In any case, a person with such a natal Lilith will definitely wear a mask towards the siblings, having a hidden agenda. This, nevertheless, does not indicate that there will not be love between them. The emotions can be totally real and even harmonious. A well-aspected Lilith will mostly lead to the ability of manipulating, without this being frequently implemented in reality.
Black Moon Lilith’s presence in the 3rd house of an individual can have an influence on his style of writing. He may be drawn towards writing dark poems and literature, involve deep sexuality in his scripts or elsehow express very deep and archetypical layers of his soul. Lilith can even trigger sick imagination, which will be considered quite radical and taboo by other people. This natal aspect can aid a lot anyone who is interested in alternative literature, as his works are definitely not for the masses.
The 3rd house is ruling one’s early education, and the presence of the Black Moon shows some problems in school. Those are mostly dependant on the communication with other pupil, and Lilith can bring all type of negative feelings. An early heartbreak from your first crush, wrath and jealousy towards the strongest pupil, mistreating and being mistreated, power games inside the classroom. Of course, most children are getting involved in such types of stories. Nevertheless, those who have Lilith in the 3rd house tend to experience them as utterly important for their reality.
Another characteristic that Lilith in the 3rd house can give, is making the individual a state-of-the-arts liar. Any person with such a placement can perfectly masquerade his lies under his words, diverting the other people’s attention and generally be a master of deceit. Her presence in the 3rd house can also have an effect on the native’s voice, making it seductive or even creepy. In any case, the people around him perceive his voice as weird and dark, and the native may have tendencies to whisper.
Black Moon Lilith in the 3rd house can lead to sexual adventures with neighbors or people who generally live in the neighborhood; in extreme situations can bring attraction towards a cousin. In any case, the native may be making short trips for sexual reasons, have sexual partners in nearby cities and maybe even pass secretly a lot of weekends with a hidden lover.
In case you have Lilith in the third house, try to think before speaking as your tongue might have a lot of poison. Your ability to pain others with your words is very strong, so choose consciously and wisely before you do it. It is always better to express your darkness through art, than directly and uncontrolled towards other people.
Having Lilith in the 4th house is considered a rather unfortunate natal placement, as it directly affects one’s childhood years and family. Astrologers claim that Lilith’s detriment is the sign Cancer, and thus the traditional home of Cancer is by no means a good place for her to dwell.
The native’s early years are disharmonic and there are problems with at least one parent. The fourth house is responsible for the less dominant one, which in most cases is the person’s mother. Lilith can give an unloving mother that abandons her child, or does not dedicate a lot of time to it. There are a lot of possibilities that she is dedicating more time to her sexuality than raising the young native, and Lilith’s sexuality is a rather obscure matter.
In many occasions, Black Moon Lilith’s presence can bring divorce of the parents due to unfaithfulness or other reasons connected with sexuality. The child feels as an observer, incapable either to understand or to soften things between its parents. In many occasions, the native himself is an offspring of lust rather than love, and even if his parents decide to live together and try to create a family the odds are against them. Step-parents can also be involved in the child’s early years, and it largely depends on other factors and aspects to determine their nature.
As a result, Lilith may cause similar problems when the native wants to create a family for himself. Her presence in the house of home is far from creating a sanctuary, and there will be even similar characteristics in the situations between the native and his spouse as his parents had.
The 4th house Lilith individual tends to dedicate his time and effort in matters of the exact opposite house, the 10th. He may develop great career abilities and uses his work as a gateway to escape from being at home. In extreme cases with very difficult aspects, Lilith will create a person who uses his residence just for sleeping and prefers to pass the biggest amount of his time elsewhere.
The 4th is the house of one’s roots, and Lilith can bring a lot of secrecy about the native’s ancestors. There can be dark powers running in the blood of some female ancestors. In addition, the native may have experienced a lot of poisonous relations with family members. He feels a scapegoat and rejected, and the natural outcome of his life is alienation from his roots. In case that Lilith is adversely aspected by Mars, Saturn or Pluto, the young individual might have experienced a lot of physical punishment. In lighter cases or with good aspects, verbal abuse is more frequent.
Of course, such difficult surroundings may also bring positive outcomes. Being trained in how to survive in difficult situations, the native becomes a strong character and can excel in his career- especially the type of authority positions that involve control.
The possible negative ancestral karma can run quite deep, and sometimes a wise decision for such a native is to not form a family in order to break the cycle that repeats the same patterns. Of course, this does not apply to people who have strong benefic planets in the houses of marriage, children and family.
If you have this placement, you might unravel that you possess deep instincts of emotionally harming people. As we already mentioned fourth house is traditionally ruled by Cancer and the Moon, and Lilith will frequently lure you to hurt the Moon power of other people. If you notice such types of behaviors try to deactivate them, as they are subconscious programs copied from your parents’ behaviors. You have a great chance to end these cycles – and taming Lilith can unify your light and dark side into a balanced whole.
Having Lilith in the 5th can complicate an individual’s recreational expression. It may be connected with disharmonic memories the person has from how he played in the childhood. He might have felt malice, hate or jealousy from other kids during games, dancing or sports activities, which subconsciously influences the way he perceives such types of experiences during his adult life. Also, there are possibilities that he was feeling ashamed during such occasions, which can in turn create a strong drive to take a symbolic revenge towards the world during such situations.
As the 5th house is the realm of Leo, Lilith’s presence feeds the desire of being appreciated, which naturally leads to showing off very frequently. The native needs to feel being the central actor on stage, and will frequently even develop underground strategies in order to achieve it. This can lead him even to take dancing lessons in order to dance better, build stereotypes of catchy behaviors to use them while partying, and generally find ways to attract the eyes of other people in order to cause admiration.
Lilith has a lot of seductive traits and characteristics, thus giving strong sexuality to the individual in this placement during these recreational activities. Yet, it can also cause dark feelings such as jealousy or hate from other people in the same surroundings, especially those that perceive the individual as an antagonist. And there are usually more than a few other people also desiring to be the epicenter of attention, so Lilith can create quite a lot of power games “on the dancefloor”.
In addition, as the 5th house is ruling one’s first child and the relations with children in general, Lilith can bring discomfort in such matters. This placement can make someone be in a love/hate relation with his children, pathologically adoring them but at the same time blaming them for the sacrifice of his leisure activities in order to spend time with them.
The 5th house is the realm of casual sex, and Lilith can bring quite promiscuous patterns of behaviors to the native. Especially if she is in Scorpio, or adversely affected by malefics, she can lead to dangerous games in the native’s love life. This will bring quite a lot of partners, constant flirting and secretive activities. Both the individual and his partners may be severely hurt through such behaviors, and the native might even enjoy using and hurting people emotionally. In case this happens, the individual should review his childhood to see whether he was emotionally hurt in love in his early ages. Very frequently, he will discover that potential negative behaviors to people he has affairs with may be a subconscious revenge towards the archetype of “erotic partner”, due to scars left from that love disappointment in his young age. If you have this placement, be careful with your urges to cheat on your significant other. It may hurt him a lot, and also your children-if you have any.
Generally, Lilith can cast an obscure shadow over the native’s sexuality, bringing dark fantasies of pain, torture or even rape. It awakens the beast, the animalistic sexual depths that do not allow the flourishing of emotions. Casual sex can become for them an uncontrolled obsession, and their affairs will be rather cruel from both sides concerning feelings. On the other hand it will strengthen the carnal pleasure to a maximum, with both them and their partners enjoying very intense situations.
A person with Lilith in this house will battle with inner fears of failing in matters connected with the 5th house. The fear of rejecting his children might even make him delay the process as much as he can. In addition, there is a tendency to child abuse, or an inner battle with paranoid wishes to do that.
Lilith presence in the fifth house can make someone a cunning speculator, while also lead him to gambling games in which he will not be fair. Cheating in them will not only bring money but also fulfill the dark pleasure of tricking the other person. This unhealthy behavior is more frequently present to people who have hard aspects to their Lilith. Of course, the hard aspects usually also make him get caught and bring various other problems and misbalances afterwards.
The best way of softening the difficult traits of Lilith is symbolically indulging in 5th house matters where the ego dissolves and is recomposed in a different character. Join an amateur theatre organization, and act. To your alter ego that is acting, pass all your negative urges and fears. With the help of this alter ego, you will be able to somehow cleanse your real self. Of course, there are many techniques one can use to partially get rid of the difficult behaviors that Lilith gives. Nevertheless, all forms of art and creation are very good channels for letting our darkness flow away from us.
Having Lilith in the 6th can complicate an individual’s daily routines and biorhythms, while also quite a lot of job issues and relations with coworkers. It may be connected with disharmonic memories the person has from how experienced his duties and obligations during childhood, both towards himself and to others. The young native developed feelings of hate towards situations when he was pressured to keep certain daily patterns, and definitely did not like serving orders or feeling under someone else’s rule.
As the 6th house is the realm of Virgo, Black Moon Lilith pays a lot of attention to the details, ready to bite even when does not like something small. Placed here she dislikes hierarchy and submission to others, and if pressured will sabotage even her own efforts. For a native with such a placement, respect of his work is something necessary. In case he observes a dominative attitude from his employer, he will not let that pass unpunished. A 6th house Lilith suggest discord even with the co-workers, while if the individual is the owner of the business then his employees will be rather untamable.
Lilith has a lot of seductive traits and characteristics, thus giving strong sexuality to the individual’s job life. Yet, Lilith does not develop healthy love affairs, and in case she is activated in one’s job surroundings she will most naturally bring difficulties. If you have this placement, be careful; having sex with a co-worker or your employer might include a lot of passion, but take care to consider what awkward situations it can bring afterwards. Lilith placed here will bring abrupt endings, while also develop feelings of hate, jealousy and revenge. In addition, her mischievous approach may prompt the native to use sexuality in order to obtain control over other people who work in the same surroundings.
A 6th house Lilith may indicate conscious laziness and procrastination, and a person who has it may develop quite a lot of strategies so as to work as less as he can. Such attitudes are affecting also other daily routines, even some connected with health. The native may simply do not care about going to a doctor or taking care of his daily hygiene. Lilith can even make him quite cynical about such matters, and he may not have a problem to renounce such patterns publicly. This placement can make someone hate doctors, be anti-vaccine ideologically and generally frown upon the healthcare system.
In addition, as the 6th house is ruling small animals, the native may have a pet with a rather bad character. As we always copy behaviors from our pets (and they from us), the individual may be highly influenced by some reactions and details of that animal, implementing them in his real life. With this placement, be careful to not enter in a never-ending circle where both you and your pet mutually teach bad behaviors. As you are the conscious part of this relation, behave well towards it, because its difficult traits may be reflections of your own attitude towards it.
The best way of softening the difficult traits of Lilith is consciously changing your approach towards daily patterns. Establish a more structured everyday reality, as any discord Lilith brings is connected with the chaotic series of daily events. Take care of your body and choose healthy sleeping rhythms. Eventually, you will notice that your mind will become clearer, and a lot of negative emotions will gradually dissolve. Lower your pride and become less touchy; not everyone is an enemy at your workplace. Search for the people that mostly inspire you (or at least do not get on your nerves) and start cooperating with them. You will observe yourself, that when you start radiating positive emotions, the other people will treat you better too.
Having Lilith in the seventh house can complicate an individual’s marriage or long relationships. The native is in need of uniting with someone darker than him. Lilith makes them feel attracted to people of a mischievous character and dubious morality. 7th house people are often very kind and naïve, and therefore search for the exact opposite in order to balance their own behaviors.
This is created by a subconscious need to see the dark traits of Lilith in other people, so that they do not need to manifest through the native himself. Thus, it is quite natural that he is turning towards people with a strongly emphasized Lilith in their charts. For example, their significant others may have Lilith in the 1st house or conjunct the Ascendant, which is symmetrically an opposite situation than the native’s. Alternatively, their partner’s Lilith can be conjuncting important personal planets, thus granting them obscure attributes. Yet, these are not some rules that always are valid. The partner might be expressing his darkness through other ways too. Tough aspects between Pluto, Saturn and the Moon seem to be the most common in giving such dark characteristics.
Of course, this natal placement of Lilith can be quite tricky. The native is having his life gates open for inviting individuals who may harm him. In some occasions, the chart owner might be even enjoying difficult relationships with people that might even repulse him. With hard aspects, he might receive pleasure in feeling victimized. Yet, a frequent pattern that appears is the native trying to soften the difficult character of his spouse or partner. He may feel an internal need to turn the sinner into a saint, to tame the wild beast and make it a lamb. In case that Lilith is positively aspected, the odds can be on the native’s side and help him succeed.
Of course, such transformations are not the easiest thing to happen. A 7th house Lilith indicates that one’s partners may have extremely strong sexual instincts, a rebellious character and even self-destructive tendencies. In any occasion, such unions are rather problematic and usually demand from the native to invest a lot of effort in accepting the difficult parts of their partner’s psyche.
In addition, as the 7th house is ruling one’s business partners, the chart owner should be even more careful than when choosing his beloved ones. Failing in love or marriage can have emotional consequences; yet failing in business can be even more catastrophic. It is not wise to collaborate with people you already feel that can take advantage of you. A seventh house Lilith may bring a snake at your business doorstep; consider well before uniting your powers with it.
We should not forget that the 7th house is the realm of one’s open enemies, and Lilith will make them quite vicious. Moreover, if she is adversely aspected, be sure that you’re your ex-partners (no matter if in business or in love) will not hesitate to turn against you after your relations end.
Of course, Lilith can also become a great teacher. The difficulties that she can bring in the native’s relations will definitely make him a stronger person. He will eventually become conscious about the problematic people he attracts, and also develop his own dark side, which is usually repressed.
When Lilith resides in the 7th house, it can very frequently bring divorce. Bad aspects to her indicate troubles concerning the procedure of getting divorced, and usually bring matters to court. When the native’s marriage involves having children, this placement will most probably lead to intense battles concerning their custody. The same pattern appears in a business partnerships; the dissolution of the established company may need to pass through law and can be a lengthy procedure.
Having Lilith in the 8th can complicate an individual’s sexual expression. It may be connected with disharmonic memories the person has concerning sexuality, obtained in his childhood. This does not imply sexual harassment, but the native probably has experienced the darker parts of sexuality even as an idea since he was young. He might have (accidentally) watched movies that show extreme sexual scenes. Alternatively, he may have been raised in environments where sex was described as rough and cruel. As the young person’s mind is a sponge, he absorbs those information deep in the subconscious, categorizing sex as a rather traumatic experience.
Such a native connects sex with death, and this is what the 8th house is all about. For him, sex is a strong simulation of death. Death can many times be violent, and those darker shades are also passed towards his sexuality. An 8th house Lilith person will enjoy extreme games and BDSM, while sometimes reach even cruelty in bed. Lilith can bring fantasies of pain, torture, humiliation or even rape. It awakens the beast, the animalistic sexual depths that do not allow the flourishing of emotions. They will never indulge in having vanilla sexual relationships; they prefer everything that is rough and animalistic.
In addition, the secrecy that the 8th house offers combined with the dark powers of Lilith will give them tendencies of unfaithfulness. On the contrary, they will not tolerate their partner being unfaithful; discreet spying and checking might be easily a technique they will use to control him. Sex can become for them an uncontrolled obsession, and their affairs will be rather cruel from both sides concerning feelings. On the other hand it will strengthen the carnal pleasure to a maximum, with both them and their partners enjoying very intense situations.
With Lilith in the 8th house, an individual can become a sexual manipulator. He likes to control the desires of his partners, and feed on their sexuality. In extreme cases and with Lilith having malefic aspects, the native will become a sexual vampire. The person’s sexual drive is so magical that other people find it rather difficult to defend. An 8thhouse Lilith person can be compared to a Siren; singing her beautiful and seductive song to the sailors – yet being a dangerous creature that can devour.
As the 8th house is the realm of Pluto, Lilith’s presence feeds the desire of owning other people’s possessions. We should not forget that the house is ruling other people’s money, and such a placement can also indicate a person that enjoys using resources of his partners. Again, in some extreme cases, this can be part of a plan. Ever heard of Black Widows, female spiders? Well, if there is a placement that can describe them, this is it! The 8th house rules death inheritance, and Lilith would easily drive such a person to wait for someone to die in order to obtain his wealth. An ill-aspected Lilith will impose difficulties in receiving the inheritance, and generally unpleasant and dramatic situations concerning death. There is high possibility that a death during the natives childhood has created such a traumatic pattern that will continue to reappear.
8th house Lilith creates a mystical persona, and makes the chart owner rather secretive. On the other hand, the house of Pluto and Scorpio makes them particularly strong in uncovering secrets of others. Their powerful abilities are what makes them afraid that their own secrets will be uncovered by similar people, thus leading them to become over-protective about their own sensitive information.
Of course, we should keep in mind that a well-aspected Lilith does not bear all that darkness. With such aspects, the person will just have enormous sexuality, and can even use it for healing. In addition, the native will have a lot of occult powers, and is advised to be careful with their implementation. Due to the fact that Lilith carries a lot of dark energy, he might feel tempted to cause malice even without a reason. In case you have such a natal placement, it is better to abstain from all types of magic until you consciously know what you use and what type of effects you want it to have on other people and you.
A person with Lilith in this house will battle with inner fears of failing in matters connected with the 8th house. The fear of death will make him use symbolical simulations of death. This is a procedure which most of the times happens unconsciously; the soul is preparing itself for the grand passage through small doses of symbolic deaths during all its lifetime.
Be extremely careful of people that have their 8th house Lilith conjuncting Pluto or Mars, or any difficult aspects of her to the malefics. In case you have such placements, consider giving love a chance in your life. It is many times the absence of love that transforms a tender person to a vicious beast.
Lilith in the 9th house finds response in society. Here her instinctive self-assertiveness is motivated religiously, philosophically or politically. We find here the demand of the 9th house, that society should take over one’s own behavior as a main thread or perspective. Basically, Lilith is as a very personal, charismatic energy, and if you act it out in the 9th house it may also lead to fanaticism or dogmatism. You turn your own view into the leading ideology and with Lilith you express this with much charisma, even to the degree of being dangerous. So we find Lilith in 9 in the chart of Adolf Hitler. Christian Klar, one of the heads of the former German terrorist group RAF had Lilith in 9. Interesting is also, that iron Lady Margaret Thatcher had Lilith in the house of politics. Prince Charles, whose political and philosophical ambitions do not amuse the queen, has his Lilith in 9. And a great artist with Lilith in 9 confronted us in his powerful paintings with strange new perspectives: Salvador Dali.
10th HOUSE lets you gladly manipulate other people. You strive for fame, power and status, but may not recognize the side effects of these things or you recognize them, but suppress or don't admit them at the same time. The result can be problems, restrictions and in the long run bitterness and discords, which you consider as an interference factor in your life surely. Either you don't accept that another one has power over you, or you are not consciously about others that use their power to your disadvantage at all. And thus you surely are in conflict with leading persons permanently, if you are aware of this, because you need very much freedom, and therefore you also could avoid partnerships or allow them to be on a friendship level only. Probably your demands are much too high, and you overload yourself with responsibilities within the areas of partnership and public relations. This position tempts to taboo breakings, to a questioning of conventions and undemocratic social structures.
This person has a strong drive and desire to reach a high social status or a position of authority. They want the pride and honor that comes with it since they have the fundamental conviction it's the best way to be considered by others and to deliver their best. Sometimes, it is about emancipation.
This is not necessarily a narcissistic trip. Some are genuinely motivated by a desire to achieve something for their communities before their own benefit. Expect them to be (or to mimic) the man or woman of the situation and to use their sex appeal relentlessly to influence and to solicit groups. Many will force their own hands to get their way through.
Any public criticism made by someone who has authority on them is triple the pain and can lead to strong feelings of unfairness or injustice. It can trigger an inner rage for revenge or justice.
There is an inner conflict between the need to live a life of their own or to be an individual standing out of the crowd, and the comfort of living and benefiting from the love and warmth of social groups.
These individuals may have been adopted or feel like they don't really belong to their family. They feel different and can be misunderstood. They are often sensitive to social injustice and have a natural empathy for abandoned and abused children. They may stir jealousy from their own group or be envious of someone in the group.
But, they may also be very clear about how others consider them and understand that they don't understand who they really are, good and bad. They can be accused of being deviant when they are simply different. Don't be surprised if these Lilithians join or create their own networks.
Having Lilith in the 12th house is an extreme position. Don't expect compromise when such Lilithians have a premonition. No matter the adversity, they will stick to it beyond what many would consider reasonable. They can connect to what is happening before being able to put words on it.
They can make correct prophecies or be blinded by self-fulfilling prophecies and their own illusions. Only time reveals who is right. They are not scared of being martyrs, to suffer abuse or to risk their reputation. They will totally ignore how people will consider them. It just does not matter.
When there is a shortcoming, it can trigger the deepest introspection and isolation. It is a monumental personal breakdown. On the other side, it can trigger the greatest inner breakthrough. A complete liberation of the self and from obsolete paradigms. It is about breaking all the chains towards independence and autonomy.